
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Empathy: reading other people's emotions without their having to tell you what they are feeling.
Handling feelings in relationships with skill and harmony -- being able to articulate the unspoken pulse of an individual, a group and a situation and respond appropriately.
Knowing your feelings and using them to make life decisions you can live with.
Being able to manage your emotional life without being hijacked by it -- not being paralyzed by depression or worry, or swept away by anger. Persisting in the face of setbacks and channeling your impulses in order to pursue your goals.

PROVIDING FEEDBACK
Elements of effective feedback
Understanding the need to address behaviors not perceived attitudes
Distinguishing between criticism and feedback

CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
Coping with difficult people
Conflict management styles
Getting to Yes
Traps and problems
Assertiveness vs. aggressiveness

DECISION MAKING / PROBLEM SOLVING
Problem solving models and when to use them
Determining who should be involved
Priority Setting
Decision making options
Criteria for selecting the appropriate decision option
Gaining commitment without consensus
Creating opportunities to adjust decisions based on new information

SELECTING A LEADERSHIP STYLE
Understanding and choosing the appropriate leadership style
Knowing when to shift styles
Understanding your own preferred leadership style

ESTABLISHING PERFORMANCE OBJECTIVES IN A CIVIL SERVICE ENVIRONMENTE
Measurability vs. subjectivity
Clarifying priorities and methods to shift priorities
Distinguishing between what is to be accomplished vs. how it is to be accomplished
Linkage of measurable performance objectives to position descriptions
Establishing agreement on resources required to meet objectives
Establishing appropriate decision authority
Knowing when to and how to shift from counseling to coaching
Adding “stretch” to employee performance through coaching
Coaching through conversation

SPECIAL FEATURE
"Dialogue: Now You’re Talking" A video program that teaches the principles of dialogue across culture, gender and age differences. Produced by Quality Media Resources, The Respectful Workplace Company

MEASUREMENT TOOLS APPLICABLE TO THIS INSTRUCTION
Hershey & Blanchard Situational Leadership
Rocheach Value Survey
Marcus Buckingham's Talent Inventory
Edgar Schein's Career Anchors
Thomas Kilman Conflict Styles Instrument

TEXTS FROM WHICH MATERIAL WILL BE DRAWN
Now, Discover Your Strengths, by Buckingham
The 8th Habit, by Steven Covey

AT THE COMPLETION OF THIS MODULE PARTICIPANTS WILL BE ABLE TO DEMONSTRATE THE FOLLOWING SKILLS
Shows respect and concern for people as individuals
Takes the time to understand the person in order to motivate them
Actively listens to what a person is saying: Is attentive to the words, the non-verbals and the emotional content of the message
Communicates ideas and expectations clearly
Provides sufficient recognition and rewards when performance is excellent
Provides timely and effective feedback when performance is poor
Encourages and accepts constructive criticism
Effectively assesses other's ability and willingness to perform tasks
Does not hesitate to provide clear direction and close supervision when needed
Provides coaching and assistance when needed
Is able to sell his / her ideas to others
Delegates decisions to others as appropriate

CONCLUSION
There is a soft and a hard side to leading individuals. Common to all cultures is the need to be recognized, heard and respected. I must know you, accept you and care about you before you will be willing to follow me. Then I must have the hard skills to communicate, provide feedback and choose an appropriate style of leadership.
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